I know that I’m not alone in saying that a mom’s job never ends. I can’t complain though because I have a great support system with my husband and family.
As I’m trying to play catch on some blog work, I had a phone call from my husband. He informed me that my youngest son will need to have surgery on Tuesday. He’s our child that broke his arm last week while on a field trip. Ahh, I’m currently in the middle of six partnerships with different brands. All of the drafts are due next week. I haven’t had the photoshoot. I’m room mom for my 5th grader, and I have nothing planned for his class next week. And, I have no treats for the kid’s classes. WHAT!! I am not prone to stress, but mom life is nonstop. You add a list of other to-do’s, and life can get overwhelming. So, how do I face these feelings of “I can’t do it all”??
Moms (including myself),
Stop the nonsense. Breathe. Grace to the face the day. Refocus.
Here are three simple ways that I refocus and that keep me from getting overwhelmed:
- My heart knows: “I’ve found the recipe for being happy whether full or hungry, hands full or hands empty. Whatever I have, wherever I am, I can make it through ANYTHING in the ONE who makes me who I am.” -Phil 4:14
I am never alone in this balancing act between family, job responsibilities and the extra commitments. I can have peace and superhuman strength in the midst of chaos. Giving HIM more of our attention than the chaotic schedule is part of keeping that great peace.
2. My mind needs: a planner to write it all down and to help organize the chaos.
As a free spirit, a planner/daily list is the best way to approach the day and the week. I have to be reminded what is top priority and have to be reminded to say no to the unnecessary things that pop up. Don’t sweat the small stuff.
3. My body wants: 7-8 hours of sleep every day.
Being well rested is key to getting things done. I need the energy to complete these daily work tasks and to be intentional with my family.
Outfit of the day
Along with the mom pep talk, I wanted to share an easy outfit option for those busy days that we need to look cute but comfortable. This neutral chenille cardigan is like wearing a soft blanket. I am obsessed with the color and the length. I paired it with a basic striped tee and a black denim skirt. This chenille cardigan will be on major repeat throughout the cooler months. Cant wait to pair it with jeans and OTK boots. You can shop the details below.
Thanks to River Island for sponsoring this post. All thoughts and opinions are my own.
Kara Aragon says
Love your outfit! Gorgeous smile girl!
Kara Aragon
http://www.thekaragon.com
Angelle Marix says
Thanks Kara!!!! Have a lovely Sunday ❤️
xoxo,
Angelle
Ashley Zeal says
You are such a super woman! Always impressed with your tenacity! Keep at it mama!
Corey | The Nostalgia Diaries says
Love that outfit! I’m like you – without my planner I would be so lost!!
Taisha says
Loved this list and your outfit! super cute!
anne - onedeterminedlife says
I love that long sweater! It looks so cozy! Perfect for winter.
Stacey says
Lists and sleep are everything! I’m not a mother yet but it’s what I need now to get thru the day so I’m sure it’ll carry over to motherhood one day. BTW, I love your outfit, you look gorgeous!
Lacey says
You are GORGEOUS!!!!!! I’m not a mom, but I am serial hyphenate! I do way too many things! I’m trying to buckle down so I can focus on fewer things at once!
xx,
Lacey
The Glitter Gospel
Melissa says
You’re amazing. So many great mommy tips here. Thank you!
Mindy Thompson says
Moms are superheros! You have so much to juggle, but you so so beautifully!
Xo Mindy amixofmin.com
Shelby Back says
I loved reading this! So encouraging for those mamas out there!
xo!
Shelby
http://www.glitterandgingham.com
Sara says
You are super woman! I obviously love this look (per usual) but really love your tips and couldn’t agree more that saying no is so important! And hang in there mama, you go this, xo
xo, Sara
Ashley DTKAustin says
Every single mom out there is wonder woman! Seriously though. I have no idea how y’all do everything and stay sane. I can barely keep up with my handicapped dog now!
Jessica says
I have no idea how people do it without a planner. I would forget everything!
xo Jessica
http://www.whatsfordinneresq.com
Jaime says
I’m sorry about your son’s injury!! I totally know what it’s like, and it can be overwhelming and exhausting, but some how we get through it!! You are such a boss babe!
Stuart Brazell says
You are such an absolute inspiration! Thank you so much for sharing your story. My husband and I are getting ready to start to try for family so this is great knowledge!
Ashley Houston says
I love this! As a mom, it’s great to know others feel overwhelmed! You’ve got this
Stephanie says
I may not be a mother, but I definitely understand life stresses. I could give a list haha. So I’m commiserating with you currently, girlfriend. But we know that God’s going to give us the strength and ability to make it through just fine! Loving your cozy outfit. I need some fun pieces like these!
Erica @ Coming Up Roses says
GIRL you are SUPERWOMAN!!! You’ve got this!
Coming Up Roses
Samantha says
This outfit is so cute! Love it!
http://www.thefitbrunette.com
Sarah K Tripp says
Such great advice! Love this post. You go momma!