Angelle Marix

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Hello, I’m Angelle the creator and author behind Dashing Darlin’. I’ve been married to my
best friend for over 18 years, and we are blessed with four amazing children. I am a wife and momma by day, and a blogger by night. It’s seriously a dream job!

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IT'S A DAILY CHOICE TO SPEAK LIFE AND KINDNESS OVER OTHERS. LOVE IS THE SUBJECT ON THE BLOG TODAY.

WHAT LANGUAGE DO YOU SPEAK??

It’s Monday morning, and it’s going to be a great week. On my way to church yesterday, my mind went to a moment that happened over 10 years ago around Easter time. This man that I have known since I was a child looked at me and said “you are pretty, but you’re sister looks like a movie star.”. Those words made me want to cry, and they definitely made me reject who I was on the outside even more. This memory made me take a look at myself and what language that I speak on the daily. How do I make others feel when we leave a conversation?? Am I speaking the language of heaven???

By the way, that comment doesn’t disturb me like it use to because my sister does look a movie star!!!

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“Words are, in my not-so-humble opinion, our most inexhaustible source of magic. Capable of both inflicting injury, and remedying it.” ~Albus Dumbledore

IT'S A DAILY CHOICE TO SPEAK LIFE AND KINDNESS OVER OTHERS. LOVE IS THE SUBJECT ON THE BLOG TODAY.

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I think that we can all agree on the undeniable power of  spoken WORDS. I’ve experienced the sting of harsh words more than once, and I’ve also experienced the warmth of kind, loving words (language of heaven). As a mother, it’s even harder to watch or to hear the effects that WORDS have on your babies. There is another level of emotions that begin to stir. I want to throat punch not only those kids, but the parents who allow that kind of behavior.

 It’s hard to not to let WORDS from others control you, your thoughts and your emotions. I have to teach my kids over and over how to not let the WORDS of others define them. It’s God’s WORDS that we cling to for comfort and for security. His WORDS define me and you.
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“… my heart stands in awe of your words… as one who finds great treasure.” -Psalm 119:161

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IT'S A DAILY CHOICE TO SPEAK LIFE AND KINDNESS OVER OTHERS. LOVE IS THE SUBJECT ON THE BLOG TODAY.
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We can’t let the praises from man get to our head nor the criticism get to our heart.
WORDS start quarrels and end quarrels. This truth quickens my heart to be aware of the influence of my mouth. I have the choice to let my WORDS sprinkle kindness, acceptance, warmth, sincerity, compassion, belief over my children, close friends, distant friends, strangers or a mere acquaintances. I want to choose over and over again to speak the language of heaven.
 

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IT'S A DAILY CHOICE TO SPEAK LIFE AND KINDNESS OVER OTHERS. LOVE IS THE SUBJECT ON THE BLOG TODAY. IT'S A DAILY CHOICE TO SPEAK LIFE AND KINDNESS OVER OTHERS. LOVE IS THE SUBJECT ON THE BLOG TODAY.

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“If you have the power to make someone HAPPY, do it. The world needs more of that.”

 “Words can make a soul grow wings and strengthen them with the wind causing us to soar into our destinies.”

IT'S A DAILY CHOICE TO SPEAK LIFE AND KINDNESS OVER OTHERS. LOVE IS THE SUBJECT ON THE BLOG TODAY. IT'S A DAILY CHOICE TO SPEAK LIFE AND KINDNESS OVER OTHERS. LOVE IS THE SUBJECT ON THE BLOG TODAY. IT'S A DAILY CHOICE TO SPEAK LIFE AND KINDNESS OVER OTHERS. LOVE IS THE SUBJECT ON THE BLOG TODAY.
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Let’s leave an imprint on someone’s heart that speaks acceptance and encouragement. It’s the little things that mean a lot. Who doesn’t love a little lovin’??
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My lovely tee and loafers are from River Island. They always have the best quality clothing and have great sales often too. My loafers are only $40 right now.
You can shop my outfit by clicking on the images below.
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Comments

  • Carrie | Clean Eating Kitchen
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    such a lovely post, agree, if you can make someone happy then do it! Loving your shots and stye in this post too!

    March 26, 2018
  • Hannah
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    I love everything about this post! From the outfit to the message:) Thank you for starting my week off inspired! Hope you have a great rest of your week!

    xoxo, Hannah

    March 26, 2018
  • Helena
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    Languuage and words are one of the most powerful inventions ever. They can hurt and they can make you love. Well written text.

    March 26, 2018
  • cathy
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    This is so true. Words can hurt, but they can also heal. It’s important to know which words to listen to. Also, love your handbag and super cute shoes!

    XOXO
    Cathy

    March 26, 2018
  • Madeline
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    Such a cute look! Perfect for a spring day!

    March 26, 2018
  • Meredith Tolleson
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    love the little takeaway of “how am i making others feel when I leave the conversation”

    thanks for this!

    March 26, 2018
  • Tanvi Rastogi
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    You are STUNNING! Love this outfit, the jeans and the tee – everything!

    ❥ tanvii.com

    March 26, 2018
  • Marisa
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    I really like this post because its something that few people cognizantly think about. There have been many times where I’ve used the wrong words without meaning to be rude, but sometimes I wish that I had used better choices!

    March 26, 2018
  • Oh to Be a Muse
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    It’s sad when people feel a need to say things like that to others, especially when men say it to women. But I’m happy that you’ve found a way to use it to inspire this post. I love that Dumbledore quote and your funky chic flats.

    http://www.ohtobeamuse.com

    March 26, 2018
  • Jennifer Penas
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    Your photos are super cute! What a great smile. Yes, words do affect us, as much as we think they don’t. I always try to choose my words wisely, b/c I know how it feels to be on the receiving end of bad words.

    March 26, 2018
  • Brittany
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    I really love this post! As a mommy-to-be, it really gave me something to think about 🙂 Thanks for sharing! xo, Brittany | http://www.theblistblog.com

    March 27, 2018
  • Kileen
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    I love these quotes so much, they are all so sweet.
    & Your outfit is so cute!! Loving the denim.

    Kileen
    cute & little

    March 27, 2018
  • Patricia @ Grab a Plate
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    Ohmygawd! You pout together a great look! Loving the loafers so much!

    March 27, 2018
  • Shira Rosenbluth
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    Such a powerful post and as a therapist, I truly agree that words have such power!

    March 27, 2018
  • Funmi
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    Wow, such a beautiful post and I certainly agree that one should always seek to uplift as opposed to bringing people down – I’m in for the language of heaven.
    I love your spirit and you look incredible.

    Funmi xx
    http://funmialabi.co.uk

    March 27, 2018
  • Mary
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    thanks for sharing your story, and yes we all must be speak words of encouragement!
    http://www.layersofchic.com

    March 27, 2018
  • Ada
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    This is such a powerful post – totally struck a chord with me. Love this outfit too by the way.

    March 27, 2018
  • Karen Morse
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    We should definitely be more kind with the words that we use especially to the people who are close to us. Our words can affect them in ways that we cannot imagine and that’s why we have to make sure we choose our words carefully. You’re completely right about leaving people with words that will inspire or empower them. That would be the best thing!

    March 28, 2018
  • Greta
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    My love language is action and gifts, while my husband’s is words. We’ve had to learn each other’s love languages and appeciate them!

    March 28, 2018
  • Stephanie
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    I love this post so much! YES, Words have so much power and i think a lot of people don’t realize it. It’s so important to speak life affirming words and to build each other up!

    April 4, 2018

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