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Who else loves to have a peaceful day?!? Don’t you like to be positive and be around positive people?!! I am a good vibes, good conversation, good attitude kind of girl. Don’t get me wrong, I have my moments of pouting, being negative and being slightly rude. But, it drains the life out of me if I stay there for a long time.

“Train your mind to see the good in everything. Positivity is a choice.”

One of the hardest things in my opinion is having to be around others who love to state facts, opinions and spew off a negative attitude. Seriously!! My husband can vouch for me. My brain just starts spinning… and it puts a damper on the whole atmosphere.

So, how we can all become more positive today and everyday:

1) When you look in the mirror, think and say positive things about yourself. A healthy self image can effect your day in a good way.

2) Listen to positive music like Bethel, Hillsong, or Jon Thurlow and read positive books (Uninvited, Captivated and Love Letters from God are my favs). It matters what we feed our soul.

3) Fix yourself up a little each day. You don’t have to put on a dress and makeup. But, put effort into taking care of yourself. It does alter how you feel and treat others.

4) Exercise!!! I am guilty in slacking in this area. Let’s do this together!! Start with committing to just 20-30 minutes then we can bump it up to an hour. 

5) Don’t make a mountain out of a molehill. Let’s stop the dramatics. Stop what you are doing, take a moment to refocus, and respond with a positive solution. 

6) Add VALUE to each conversation with every person!! Encourage, inspire and set the atmosphere in a positive way.  

7) Learn how to respond to negativity!! Share your heart then let go!!

8) Set some goals. Have big dreams|goals and small ones too. Anticipate them coming to fruition. 

9) SMILE!! It does a body good and everybody else good too!!

10) Surround yourself with positive friends. 

So, there you have it. Some simple things that I try my darndest to implement into my daily life. I do have Jesus, but I also have to reflect Him with some self control in order to have a more productive, positive day!!! Our words and attitude shape our world.

“A negative mind will NEVER give you a positive life.”

Btw, how perfect is this clutch for this post!!! It screams happiness and joy!!

Thanks for stopping by my blog. I do hope that you have a fabulous weekend filled with positive vibes!! xoxo

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off the shoulder top: only $15 at SheIn || shorts: similar here or here at Nordstrom || studded heels: only $45 at Target || clutch: only $16 at SheIn || hat: only $14 at Target || earrings: Purple Peridot

Photography: Jen Menard