So, the older that I get the more that I seek to stay in the mindset of body positivity. I have learned to celebrate my femininity and my curves. As a young girl, I remember when the questioning started. I questioned my beauty because of my thick thighs, my wide hips, my cellulite, my butt (or the lack of one), my ugly arms, and so many other parts of me. I would look at others who seem to be captivating in every way then compare myself to their standards. Now, y’all, in 1978, we didn’t have a television, and we didn’t go to movies (only one time when they converted the movie, Peter Pan, into color). Media didn’t teach me this. No one spoke these words over me. These were my thoughts. These were lies that I believed.
Today, I want to tell you that “You are altogether BEAUTIFUL my darling. There is NO FLAW in you.”-SOS 4:7. Beauty is not dictated by your size or the shape of your body. Just because someone is beautiful doesn’t mean that you and I aren’t!!! This is a struggle for many women. I hate to see the side effects of having a poor body image. I use to believe those lies, and I would beat myself up daily then isolate myself from others.
So, I wanted to share some simple steps that helped me to change my thoughts and to adopt a positive body image:
STEP 1
Accept your body shape, the curves and all
Step 2
Remind yourself that true beauty comes from within so cultivate inner beauty
Step 3
Surround yourself with positive relationships
Step 4
Work out because you love your body not because you hate it
Step 5
Shut down the voices that tell you that you don’t look good enough
Step 6
Wear clothes that you love and that make you feel amazing about yourself
I was so excited to partner with ModCloth to share their August pre-fall collection that is designed for ALL shapes and sizes. They carry sizes XXS-4X. Isn’t that amazing?!!? ModCLoth celebrates every body type.
So, when I am shopping, I know to go for the flow-y, feminine tops and dresses because I love the way that they look and love that they make me feel confident in my outfit of the day. So, this ModCloth maxi dress was love at first sight. It fits perfectly around the neckline, waist and arms. I love that it is feminine yet edgy. This maxi is fabulous for fall and for colder days, I can pair it with my black, moto jacket. I also snagged this amazing, Vegan leather satchel for under $60.
ModCLoth has you covered when it comes to dressing you for every occasion. This casual, BOHO top is giving me all of the feels. The print just screams fall season too. I paired it with these Wrangler wide leg jeans that are also from ModCloth and so comfortable. Size up because they run a little small.
ModCloth maxi dress ||floral, BOHO top || Wrangler wide leg jeans ||Vegan leather satchel
Thank you to ModCloth, a brand I love, for sponsoring today’s post. As always, all opinions and thoughts are my own.
I love that dress, it’s beautiful and I love it for fall, it’s a great dress for weekends or date nights! That top, the blue with the pop of yellow, LOVE it!
You look amazing girl! I love all these positive messages – I need to start implementing them.
– xo, Azanique | http://www.lotsofsass.com
You look so beautiful here! I love all your positive messages here too! I need to start telling myself some of these! Thank you so much for sharing. xo, Nataly
First off yes we all need to be proud and love who we are! Second I love your outfits!
I love this post so much. Such an important message and you look gorg!
You are amazing and thank you for such a positive message! I’n obsessed with that maxi dress and you look just stunning!
xoxo,
Kim
These looks are some of my favorites! Such a beautiful post babe!
I LOVE this message!!! ““You are altogether BEAUTIFUL my darling. There is NO FLAW in you.”-SOS 4:7. Beauty is not dictated by your size or the shape of your body. Just because someone is beautiful doesn’t mean that you and I aren’t!!!” This is why you are my soul SISTER!!! Both looks are SHOW STOPPERS!!! I NEED!! XO
GIRL, I’m loving those jeans in your second outfit!
Love all your points, each one is great to remember! Love the outfits too.
Modcloth is one of my favorite stores! I love that they have sizes for everyone. You are looking fab in both of these outfits!
Your pictures are captivating. Serious goals!! I’m partial to the boho blouse as I’m a jeans and pretty top kind of girl, but both looks are really pretty.
XOXO
Katey // Two Peas In A Blog
That dress is so perfect for Fall! You’re killing it girl!
Okay, I need that dress and top like right now!!
Liz
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These prints are stunning! You look gorgeous!
I just recently did a post about loving my body and I love seeing all the posts everyone else has been posting recently about the same topic too! You look amazing in both of these looks! I’m definitely going to need that maxi!
Love this post! That maxi dress is gorgeous on you!
xx,
Amanda || http://www.fortheloveofglitter.com
Body positivity can be so hard but is so important! I just adore both of these looks on you and I want that dress!
Just when I didn’t think I could love you and your blog any more, then you go and warm my heart and inspire me with your fabulous self!
xo, Sara
i love the maxi dress and your hat!
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Thank you so much for this important message – love the outfits you shared here, but love what you shared even more! xoxo
I so loved this post!! I struggle with body image issues so I always love reading these types of posts! So inspiring! xo
Yes girl, yes! You look amazing! Love this post!
100% love this post. Body positivity is so so important, and we all need to remember to appreciate how amazing our bodies are!
So obsessed with all of these looks! such a cute post and positive message!
Love this post and love this dress on you- so pretty!
xo, Kristina
I love the message that ModCloth shares with everyone! It is so important! And that dress is gorgeous on you!
xo Jessica
http://www.whatsfordinneresq.com
love this message, and look! you’re such an inspiration! xo
This is the cutest dress! Love all the tips!!
You are absolutely gorgeous! I love mod cloth I’ve been shopping there for years
This post is absolutely beautiful. Love the tips and your outfits! xo
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